Important life lessons from Mahabharata

I am sure you have heard of Mahabharata, the Hindu epic that gives lessons on various aspects of life. 

But do you know that there are many lessons to learn from Mahabharata and apply in your life?
Mahabharata is an 'Itihasa' which means 'thus it happened. Mahabharata is one of those epics which can transform your life if you understand the essence of it. 

    Mahabharata(fifth Veda), or you can also call it Jaya, written by the legendary author Maharishi Ved Vyasa, is an ancient Indian epic that tells the story of two branches of a family, Pandavas and the Kauravas.

    Many of us are aware of the intense animosity between them, so here are some valuable life lessons you can study from their mistakes in Mahabharata.

    The teachings in Mahabharata are so well that they can be applied in our daily lives, and we all can learn the right way to live by those teachings.

    In this article, you will find some amazing lessons that everyone needs to learn from this epic(Mahabharata), so that they can gain wisdom and knowledge. 

    Let's get started.

     1. It does not matter how good your thoughts are. What matters are your actions

    what are the lessons of Mahabharata

    This lesson is something which we can learn by Anga-raja Karna in Mahabharata.

    Though he was a wise man, had exceptional archery skills, was a giver, believer of Dharma, and had many more virtues and qualities, he spoke harsh words to Draupadi(also known as Panchali) in front of the Sabha. 

    Karna made harsh comments on Draupadi's character and called her a "vaishya" as she had five husbands.

    This instructs us that it doesn't matter how well you think or how good your thoughts are, but what does matter is the actions you perform. As there is a very famous saying:
    Actions speak louder than words

    2. Attachment makes you blind

    attachment makes you blind Mahabharata lesson

    Attachment to anything makes you blind. This is the most important thing which many scholars and saints have talked about. This is a crucial lesson that is really repeated in Mahabharata several times. 

    For instance, let's say you want a specific dog that you love.

    If any person offers you the most charming, loving, caring dog except the one you want, you will not take it.

    It does not matter how many unattractive the dog is; you want that specific one. But why this happens? the only reason is attachment.

    This was the mistake of Hastinapur king Dhritrashtra

    Dhritrashtra and Pandu were brothers, and they knew that their children were entitled to rule Hastinapur, but Duryodhan wanted the power, and he denied the right to Pandavas.

    Duryodhan had committed numerous sins and tried to assassinate Bheem and other brothers, while Dhritarashtra knew that his son was doing Adharma. 

    He was the king. He would have quickly overruled his son's decisions, but he was blinded by affection and attachment to his son. 

    Excessive attachment to anything in life makes you enslave

    3. Ego leads to the destruction of intellect

    Egoistic girl looking at phones. Mahabharata lesson on ego.

    The next significant life lesson  from Mahabharata characters is that ego is self-destructive as it creates a mirage that you are the one, the best, and the mighty men/women. 

    It is a deep, shallow well, and you should never fall in it as you will never be able to rise again. 

    Duryodhan, the mighty mace fighter and the eldest of the Kauravas, had a significant ego in him, making him blind.

    He was egoistic and prided over his strengths. 

    He tried everything to take the kingdom from Pandavas but failed because ego takes you nowhere. It eats you from the inside, burns your intellect, and destroys your decision-making capabilities. 

    And that's what happened with Duryodhana; he failed, lost the battle, lost his brothers, and died. 
    Ego is a prison of wisdom

    4. Giving up on duty is not a choice a wise makes

    Giving up on duty important life lesson of Mahabharata

    Bhishma Pitamaha, the most powerful warrior in Mahabharata, was a person of the vow. 

    Though he thought that he knew the real meaning of dharma, it was not the truth. 

    He just gave up all his duties to serve Hastinapur like a slave. He had the power, knowledge; he knew what was right and what was wrong. 

    If he had been the king of Hastinapur, no war or deeds would have happened. 

    The truth is Adharma or unrighteousness happens because the people knowing Dharma or righteousness remain silent and give up upon their duties which makes them the great sinner. 

    Only a person who knows what is right does what is right while thinking about his people with compassion in his heart. Such a person leads well or makes this world a better place.

    Never give up on your duties howsoever it may be

    5. Choose your friends wisely in life

    Choose your friends wisely in life mahabharata lesson

    As there is always a moment in everyone's lives where they think - Am I in a good company? Are my friends good for me? etc.

    I am not saying that it educates you to be selfish or make friends because you want something from them.

    But it informs us that a good friend never leaves us alone and never lets us lose; on the contrary, a bad friend always has a selfish motive behind his/her friendship.

    Sri Krishna was a beloved friend of Arjuna, and Duryodhana was a friend of Anga-raja Karna. 

    Because of Krishna's wisdom, Arjuna learned what was right and wrong. Sri Krishna always helped Arjuna whenever he needed him.

    On the other hand, though Karna was a follower of dharma due to Duryodhana, he became like him; he started to protect the wrong ones. 

    However, he knew that Duryodhana was doing Adharma. Still, he followed him and never questioned him. 

    This enlightens us that only a loyal friend helps us and never permit us to do anything wrong in our life. And gives us the right advice. So my readers, choose your friends and partner wisely.

    Rare as is true love, true friendship is rarer - Jean De La Fontaine

    6. Always choose God and have faith in him

    Hand towards sky choosing God Mahabharata Life lesson

     I'll tell you a popular story from Mahabharata, which will clear the meaning of this point.

    So one day, Krishna was sleeping in his chamber, Arjuna and Duryodhana both arrived. 

    Duryodhan enters first and takes his position at the head of the bed of Krishna, waiting for him to awake. 

    While Arjuna waits at the feet of Krishna

    When Krishna wakes up, he sees Arjuna first and then Duryodhana. So he offers the right of the first choice to Arjuna, asking him to choose between Narayana (Krishna) on one side, unarmed and not agreeing to fight, or the mighty, one million strong Narayani Sena (Krishna’s army), on the other.

    For Arjuna, the choice was easy and he instantly chooses Narayana over the Narayani Sena. 

    Duryodhana was thrilled by Arjuna’s selection and with the notion of adding the mighty Narayani Sena to the Kaurava’s army gave Duryodhana a feeling of great strength and belief that he will win the war.  

    We all know that Pandavas won the war because of Krishna, so I want to say that always choose lord when you are in a phase of quitting. 

    Do work for god's sake; it doesn't matter you are Hindu or a follower of any other religion. Just do it for your lord choose him over intoxicants, negative energy in your lives. He will help you as he has created you; just have faith in God.
    Trust God and leave everything on him just perform your actions

    7. Try to be as good as possible but don't ever compete to become better than other

    Important life lesson from mahabharata everyone should learn

    Karna was a great warrior, and we all know that he was far better than Arjuna, but still, he lost the battle. 

    There are many reasons he lost all his knowledge when he needed it the most, but what he did wrong is what I will tell you next.

    He wanted to become an excellent archer and wanted to show Arjuna and the world that he is the mightiest and the most skilled archer. 

    That's where he went wrong. 

    Never compete so harshly with anyone as it is true that you will gain everything, you will become good, but the real truth is that there will always be someone who will be better and far more outstanding than you.

    Compete with yourself to become as better as you can be but never try to become excellent than anyone because this will lead to an endless cycle of self-doubt and unhappiness from where you will never return, my friend.

    Compete with yourself become a better version of yourself

    8. Quality always matters over quantity

    Quality over quantity Mahabharata Life lesson

    There is a profound lesson on friendship in the great epic Mahabharata. If you have read the 6th point(Always choose God) of this post, you will know what I mean. 

    Arjuna chose Krishna over Narayani Sena, and Duryodhan chose Narayani Sena over Krishna as he thought he will win if he had an enormous army.

    But Pandavs won the battle because Krishna was by their side. It doesn't matter how many friends you have, how many team members you have; what matters is the quality of your friends and the dedication of your team. 

    Let your guiding rule be not How Much but How Good

    9. Envy is a door to hell

    Envy

    Duryodhana's envy made him blind as he always wanted to achieve what Pandas have and did not. He always wanted to surpass them. 

    He was envied when he saw the Indraprastha; he was envied when Yudhishthira was on the verge of becoming the king.
    What the envy gave him exactly NOTHING, he was left with nothing.

    10. Little knowledge is like a gun without a bullet

    Little knowledge is like a gun without a bullet

    Arjuna's son Abhimanyu only had a little experience of the war. 

    He knew how to enter that Chakravyuha(Padmavyuha) or maze but was unaware of how to exit it. 

    As he was not able to exit the Chakravyu, he was killed by the Kauravas dreadfully. This gives us an valuable lesson that if you know little about anything, you should never take action, first have the proper knowledge and then take action.

    Even you would have noticed people like Abhimanyu who risk everything though they have little information about something. 

    People like Abhimanyu lose money in the stock market, cryptocurrency, and other things without knowing the subject.

    Half knowledge is worse than ignorance 

    11. It is important to give than to receive

    give more than you receive

    Karna, though on the path of adharma, was a noble person and did many charities. 

    He believed that he owns nothing to himself, and it is more important to give others what they do not possess. 

    This quality of Karna teaches us to remain humble and give as much we can to the needy. It is more essential to give others the happiness and joy they deserve than to just stay selfish.

    Giving is the greatest act of grace

    12. Think twice before you speak

    Life lesson mahabharata think twice

    Draupadi spoke many harsh words to Duryodhan, and Duryodhan wanted to hurt Draupadi in the same way as she did to him. 

    This act of revenge took place when Duryodhan planned to defame Draupadi by stripping off her clothes in front of the sabha. 

    Though she was saved by Krishna and the way Duryodhan took revenge was unforgivable, the most remarkable thing we learn is that we do not know which words of ours are hurting a person. 

    We do not know how he/she will react. So it is essential to think thrice or twice before you speak.

    The tongue is the mightiest sword

    13. Revenge takes you nowhere

    revenge

    Shakuni loved his sister Gandhari very much, and as she was married to Dhritarashtra, who was blind. 

    Shakuni was very angry as no one discussed Shakuni about this decision, and he took the vow to destroy the kingdom of Hastinapur. 

    This vow of revenge was the seed of war, and this teaches us to just forget, move on, and forgive as revenge destroys the person you hate and yourself.

    Before you embark on the journey to take revenge to dig two graves

    14. The mind is the greatest weapon

    The mind is the greatest weapon

    We learn this lesson from Shakuni that the mind is the greatest and mightiest weapon. 

    Shakuni had no fighting skills, but he had mastery of making strategies to turn the table to defeat the enemy by his cunning moves.

     He had the knowledge, and he used it in the wrong way, but, my friends, you should use it the right way because you will know one day that you possessed a mighty weapon of success, but you were unaware.

    Your greatest weapon is your Mind! and you should load it with the greatest ammunition; knowledge and protect it with your great defense the lord

    15. The power of will

    Will power

    Bhishma Pitamaha always wanted Hastinapur to be ruled by a man who knew Dharma. 

    He had a strong will and did everything possible to fulfill his dream and purpose, which was fulfilled when Pandavas won the war.

    This gives us a major life lesson that willpower, if channelled in the right direction and with faith in the lord, does wonder.

    Will power defeats all powers

    16. Not raising your voice against the injustice makes you a culprit too

    Raise your voice

    Bhishma Pitamaha, the knower of Dharma, was silent when Draupadi's clothes were tried to be stripped off.

    He had the power and authority to stop it, but still, he was silent because Draupadi cursed him and every man present in the sabha or assembly. 

    We learn that it does not matter what vow you take or anything; what matters is the power and courage to raise your voice against injustice. 

    Never be afraid to raise your voice for honesty and truth and compassion against injustice and lying and greed. If people all over the world...would do this, it would change the earth. - William Faulkner

    Conclusion

    The essential life lessons from Mahabharata given above are vital but we ignore even after reading this epic. 

    Nowadays, many girls face injustice because someone does not come in front to raise their voice. 

    If everyone would read Mahabharata and know the universal message it provides to mankind, the lessons that, then many crimes would've been stopped. 

    Build the courage to say NO!, dare to raise your voice. 

    Make this world a safer place. 

    I will end this blog with a beautiful quote by Paulo Coelho:
    “Close some doors today. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they lead you nowhere.”― Paulo Coelho
    Thank you for reading this blog post. I hope you learned new things and if you loved my post, tell me in the comments which lesson you loved the most.😄